Four Reasons for Clutter

4 Reasons Why You Might Have A Clutter Problem (and solutions to overcome it)

A cluttered home makes us feel out of control, doesn’t it? You can start to blame yourself for not having your act together. You start thinking something might be wrong with you. Maybe you are just a messy person. Maybe you are lazy. Maybe you belong on a reality TV show.

But what if we are just normal people with a few legitimate reasons for the state of our home? Once we understand why the clutter occurs, the solutions might be easier to solve than we think!

Here are four reasons you might have a clutter problem and simple solutions to begin to overcome it!

4 Reasons You May Have A Clutter Problem1. You are in a transitional season.
Every time we have a change in routine, go through a stressful period of time, have a baby, lose or start a new job, experience a financial setback, move to another home, get sick, or have any other life-altering experience, clutter multiplies. We tend to let things pile up because we figure we will get organized once things “settle down.”

Solution:  Don’t wait for ideal circumstances. Life is a series of transitions; so find simple ways to get things in better order even in those crazy seasons. Focus on areas that frustrate you the most every day, like perhaps your dresser or closet. You can make today a little better by spending just a few minutes decluttering and organizing things you use every day.

2. You need simple systems or organizational routines.
One of the fastest ways for your home to become disorganized is you simply don’t know where to put things. And when you don’t know what to do with something, you set it down anywhere. And those areas become clutter magnets.

Solution:  Stop and take notice when you find yourself gravitating towards clutter spots with yet another pile of stuff. Why are you setting things there instead of putting them away? Maybe your bills pile up on the coffee table because you don’t have a bill paying or recycling system. Maybe your kids toss coats and papers on the kitchen table because they don’t have designated hooks or routines to deal with things they bring home from school. Once you can identify why the problem is occurring, set aside time to set up a new system to take care of it.

3. You have too much stuff.
This might seem like the most obvious reason for clutter, but it is usually the one we have the most trouble with. We can’t find clothes to wear when our closet is overflowing so we buy new ones. We have to get new tools because our garage is so full we can’t find our screwdrivers. We love finding great deals at yard sales so we store everything in our already crowded basement until we can find a place for it. We have emotional attachments to things and we don’t want to get rid of them. Too much stuff always creates more clutter.

Solution:  While we might feel like the solution is to get containers to organize it all, it really makes more sense to do the obvious and more painful — eliminate the excess. You really can’t and shouldn’t organize an excess of clutter in your home. Make it a game to get rid of 10 things every day. If you are emotionally attached to things you don’t have room for, look for creative ways to preserve memories without keeping every single item on display.

4. You are a perfectionist.
How could a perfectionist have clutter? Perfectionism paralyzes us. While we know we have clutter, we don’t feel equipped to deal with it perfectly so we do nothing. Maybe we don’t have the perfect organization system yet; we don’t have time to clean out the entire closet, or can’t decide what is most important to do first.

Solution:  Tell yourself it doesn’t have to be perfect; it just has to be better than it was. You may never have enough time to clean up or reorganize an entire room at once, but try spending 15 minutes a day tackling one small area like a counter or table top. It doesn’t matter which one you start with, just start with something and make it better than it was.

What are some reasons you have clutter problems? What could you do today to get started on a solution?

Share your solutions with us!

  • Krys72599

    #3 is me to a T!!! Things mean something to me, not the $ value, but the emotional value. It used to be so-and-so’s, so-and-so gave it to us, I like it even though it doesn’t fit/go/match, it’s a waste if I just throw it away…

    • Betsy

      I have taken stuff that I love and put it in a box and removed it from a certain area. I have found that when I remove the clutter I feel so much better and I never miss any of it. It feels like freedom when you look at a clutter free space. It feels way better than looking at stuff no matter who gave it to you.

  • Pinky

    I know I have too much STUFF for this house and am planning on joining our community garage sale in the Spring. I am packing thibngs as I go through them for that sale. This is a new house, we were in our old house for almost 29 years, so accumulated alot. I also have trouble getting my hubby to let things GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pinky

  • Maria @ Inspiration Affirmation

    Every one of these ideas resonates with me — you really hit the nail on the head, Melissa! I think something that I do that really makes the clutter worse is that at the beginning of every season, I tackle the clutter, but it takes so long because I didn’t just deal with it as it amounted. There aren’t a multitude of cluttered spaces in our home, but each season I find different solutions for different problems that have come up since the season before. I think that by doing this on a more frequent basis, I could free up some time and also enjoy our home that much more! So looking forward to this new column!

  • Mrs Mac

    Large dining table/office, so everthing gets done there! How to make ourselves clear the top? Hubs loves newspapers, and I always have a pile of books, a couple of bills, the laptop, the mail, and a pair of scissors. Why can’t we get organised? The rest of the house is not bad at all!!!

  • Marie

    I can relate to all four reasons! This is in our office, my dumping station! Iam retiring in December so I’m waiting till then. I don’t know where to put stuff so I ‘ll just wait. I have tooooo much stuff. And I am a bit a a perfectionist so it overwhelms me. Looking forward to your column to help me find solutions!

    • Melissa @ The Inspired Room

      Thanks Marie, too much stuff and being a bit of a perfectionist can definitely make things tough! I’m looking forward to sharing some solutions we can all use!

  • Betty

    Great column! Downsizing to a new home creates a lot of clutter and a lot of organizational challenges. I could use all the help I can get! I’m looking forward to more posts from this column!

  • Amy Driver

    Congrats on the new article! I alway have two piles in my kitchen that everyone stacks papers etc on!!! Drives me nuts bc even though I think I have a system for all those random papers, nobody uses it. Need a foolproof way to declutter those hot spots…

  • Pete

    Good analysis. I’m guilty on all of above. Lately tho have been following these things, and it’s helping, tho I’m not done yet. I also enjoy collecting a lot of vintage stuff –and I walk that balance between too cluttered and interesting..I really like the Anthropologie look…one suggestion for others which helped me, my latest collection has been vintage steel boxes and old index card boxes…they look cool and provide hiding places for all kinds of stuff ranging from toiletries to DVDs to office supplies..if you like to collect it’s good to collect something that also has a function..the other problem i’d like to hear other people’s ideas on is dealing with all the mail and bills, especially the ones you don’t pay as soon as they come…i’ve tried a few approaches, but it’s not working great…this could be an interesting column

    • Melissa @ The Inspired Room

      That is a great idea to combine both your love of collecting vintage boxes with a system for organizing things! Having both beauty and function in your home and accessories is the way to go!

  • Elizabeth

    These are SO true, Melissa! We just moved and are getting ready for our third son so we are definitely in transition. I think the move has us needing to get new systems in place to keep ourselves organized. I’m working on that now. The whole perfectionist thing can definitely paralyze me, but I’m working on that too. I’m thinking I need to start a blog to motivate me in taking the baby steps necessary to get things moving in the right direction.

  • Lisa Frank

    Mrs Mac, I hear ya! Our dining table is often a clutter magnet too–my latest craft project, kid projects, mail, and misc “stuff” I want in plain view so I can take action on it.

    One tip that has helped me was to clean out half of our built-in china hutch/buffet that’s next to the dining table. We’ve had most of the shelves filled with cocktail glasses that we seriously hadn’t used once in the 8 years we’ve been married…time to clear ‘em out! So I lined the inside of the upper glass cabinets with burlap (to hide the randomness inside) and put baskets and storage containers on the shelves for my kids’ art supplies and projects, my frequently used craft items, candles, a few serving dishes, etc. Once the doors and drawers are closed, you have no idea the space has an unconventional use. The same could be done with a dresser or armoire, or even some large baskets with lids.

  • dm

    after our refrigerator ice maker threw a party for a week while on vacation we had to replace hardwood floors, trim, drywall and cabinet. I am frustrated on my acculumation of groceries from pasta to can goods that I had stored away and didnt realize I had so much until this water damage. Do you have suggestions for rotating refrigerated food to flour, can goods, etc. I need a system!

    • Melissa @ The Inspired Room

      I’m sure we will be able to address pantries and refrigerators too in a future column! Thanks for commenting!

  • Terry Detrick

    #1 and #3 both spoke to me. As far as transition, our two 20-something sons keep coming and going, along with all their stuff, including one hairy Golden Retriever. And last year we moved my in-laws into assisted living and sold their home, so I’m dealing with the clutter of some of their stuff — a WWII trunk and an end table in the dining room, (2) unused dressers in the spare bedroom, Rubbermaid containers stacked in the garage and master bedroom, etc. My father-in-law passed away a month ago and when we cleaned out his apartment, we brought all his clothes home. Just this very morning, I am sorting through those items, separating into piles for trash, Goodwill, or my laundry room to be washed and given away. You’ve helped me realize that I just keep waiting for my sons to get settled (somewhere other than here!) and this season of caring for my in-laws to come to an end, and THEN I’ll get my house in order.
    Perfectionism plays into this, as well. I realized a long time ago that I tend to put off doing anything that I know won’t be perfect in the end. I know I need to get over it, but it is easier to procrastinate than to change my attitude/mindset. Your “just start with something and make it better than it was” is good advice.

    • Melissa @ The Inspired Room

      Thanks Terry, seeing that tendency in yourself is a good step. I know I have to remind myself to “just get started with something” advice often to keep myself from being paralyzed and doing nothing towards my goal!

  • Evie

    I’m afraid once the clutter is removed I will be responsible for keeping it that way and I don’t have the where-with-all to maintain a cluttee-free environment.

  • Jean

    Clutter often represents for me a combination of indecision, procrastination and not being able to let go of the past.

  • Lisa T

    you are all speKING TO & FOR ME – I Have been through all of the above and I am a collector of many different things salt & pepper shakers,all manner of Christmas goodies *espeially blown glass ornaments, my DH’s company moved us out of the country and back, we had a much harder time finding a house than expected, so we got a temporary 2bed apartment til we find one so almosyt no way our 3bed house ful of stuff will fit heere, so everything we own is in storage util we do find a house to buy so in the meantime we are trying to get buy w.a bare minimum of towels, sheets, etc so lots of laundry dutyick!I think it was Frank Lloyd Wright who said”have nothing in your home you do not believe to be beautiful, or know to be useful” words we will live buy in our new &hopefully last home cheers all, thanks for your inspiration!

  • Mary Beth

    My mother is recently going through stuff that my grandmother had since she did crafts. There is no way I will have time to do the crafts I like to do yet alone the ones my grandmother did and never finished. I created a box in my garage for ‘grandma’s stuff’. But my mother is one to say ‘we might need that one day’. UGH! Plus she is a perfectionist and makes piles of crafts according to color. HELP!

  • Lynn

    Several years ago I had to close my parent’s home where they had lived for 20+ years. They grew up in the Depression so “we might need this later” was the motto. I am an only child and going through this exercise made me determined not to put my children through this. I am in a season of transition due to medical situation and am determined to rid myself of clutter and as Frank Lloyd Wright said “only have usefull or beautiful things” in my home. Really looking forward to more on this subject. Thanks for doing this.

  • Lola Shireman

    Life altering experience; when my husband died suddenly, I began buying things I did not need and had no place to put them causing severe clutter problem. I also didn’t take care of incoming mail and that piled up to become overwhelming. I have just begun a total purge of paperwork with the use of my shredder. It is a good feeling to see the boxes empty and the bags fill with paper. This is ONE project. My next project with be to go through my house and put a label on anything I do not really want and other items that I do not really need. With the labels attached to these items, I can start the process of removing them from my home. This did not begin overnight and I am not going to solve it overnight. Patience and seeing your vision is the key!

  • June ramirez

    Just found your site today. Great info. Been wanting to de clutter for a long time now. Found great ideas from you and comments from others. How do I get more info from you? Thanks!